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HAPPINESS, in this world we can get everything money, fame, love, prosperity by our struggle our passion but one thing we cannot get is happiness, Happiness of soul, which we use to forget in carving of getting more and more.

 When we were kids we use to think oh god! when we will be younger , when we will take our own decision , when people will think we are responsible enough to handle each and every situation and they will hand over their responsibility to us thinking of this we were not able to enjoy our  childhood, time flies away we get younger our dream come true we put our leg in bigger shoes, we start to prove our self in the race of success, although we have luxuries to enjoy now we are part of crowd but from soul we are alone .

Sometimes we want to laugh or cry but we cannot show our emotions, as with prosperity we become possessive about people living around us before our feelings, we give importance to their views and comments as we want to be idol for others. Now we are nosatisfied with what we have.   After realize, we cannot go in past to enjoy childhood.

after some years we would get retire, beginning of old age immortal truth of life we would have child, grandchild, our life partner we can enjoy with them but in those relations we find ourselves helpless as we are now dependent on young generation for physical and mental protection, sometime generation gap occurs which make conflicts between near and dear, young generation wants to work in their own way they want to learn from their failure and we want to give benefit of our experience instead of convincing them we start imposing our decision to prove our experience. In this process lastly we feel ourselves contempt and incomplete, shattered and restless.

 Whole life we spend in doing profit and loss we earn…but beside these things we lose pleasure, quality time, and satisfaction. We forget happiness of life can be earned when we live with satisfaction, which gives birth to feeling of completeness. life is a journey and death is destination, phases of life are stations where life train can halt for  some years, but journey is not reached to destination journey will end with death. So count what matters to us happiness or superficial things?

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Marriage, it’s very difficult to define word marriage its truly said, ‘marriage is a laddu, a person who eats regrets, who does not also regrets.’ Sometime marriage becomes commitment, sometime love, sometime lust and sometime even disaster. Marriage takes lots of time to grow. Initial years of marriage play most important role in its growth. In these years if two people love, respect and trust each other then whole life they spend peacefully and happily otherwise home become war place and marriage become war.

 Marriage is like a plant it needs rays of trust, water of love, manure of understanding and protection of care and respect. In initial years misunderstanding between couples are common as after engagement they spend their life in air castles they are ready to do anything for each other even they swerve to die for each other. They like each other’s attitude; they never try to find out any faults in each other .life is like heaven. But when they got married situation takes U turn, as now family is also included in their love life. A third party, this can play supportive role or a reason of conflict.

 One partner left her home, her maiden family and come to your home with lots of dreams in her eyes she is new to your home, except husband, everyone is stranger for her. at this time husband role is like bridge between his partner and family if he could make balance between them  then family life runs smoothly  but if husband hides anything related to his family , which effects her life , after sometime when she comes  to know about that then trust and respect for her husband shakes same situation lies with family if husband hides her wife’s  habits  and necessary  things which play important role in her life from family then sometimes unknowingly  they hurt her , and misunderstanding between them take place.

 In this relation it is important that husband behavior should be neutral for both sides of bridge as one small misunderstanding can be a big issue for future and as time passes it is difficult not only to handle but to solve that, both sides’ starts finding faults in each and every matter they never ready to walk together, because of this stress marriage starts ruining. They both start hurting each other. Understanding between them is now zero as husband is not ready to accept his mistake in matter arisen, and wife she is not ready to forgive him and his family for repeated mistakes. If husband walk honestly on this runway then he can handle it easily, he should give equal respect to both sides, he should keep them on same platform  to judge the situation genuinely.

Second reason when married life become hell is one partners hide something from other in their personal life it give wrong intention to other partner suspect take place of love which make their relation hollow.  Doesn’t matter reason behind hiding but he if they trust they should openly share everything weather that is good or bad. They should stand beside each other in each and every situation not in front of each other. one should not scared from situation or reaction of other side, may be scenario looks bed for sometime but result will be definitely good . Trust make their relation more stronger than before.

Third reason behind conflict is their nature, way of thinking, everyone is unique and it is not possible to have similar nature, better half means if one is having  one quality and other don’t then they should balance that by fulfill each other’s place like if one is introvert personality and other is extrovert then extrovert personality should fulfill the place of introvert, Without expecting introvert to change according his or her wishes. One should respect what other is having.  Don’t force to change as force will give birth to rebel. they should not interfere in way of living life as it depends on upbringing except some issue which can harm not only oneself but other partner also like health ,hygiene.

Fourth obstacle which is very common everyone wants space to grow and think this space is necessary to run each and every relation. As for that understanding between two is important they should give and respect each other privacy.

Small choices automatically changes accordingly when love exist in relation. They like to give surprises gifts, which is a way to shower love on darling partner, even they can spend quality time together by going on holidays at place they like. If they color themselves with love and care for each other they will never get bore from marriage, after years their marriage will never get old.

Assessment of Maturity

                   

           

 

                            

 

Maturity, this word also  forced  you to think like me, when someone comment you that you are immature, or you are immature to handle this work or don’t interfere between us as  you  are immature. Basically human being can’t be immature his behavior can sometime make feel others that he is immature.

when it comes to me I think a lot what is maturity where it comes from, mother’s tummy, genes, by reading books, pretending to be sincere or from our surrounding, but I cannot able to find answer. If I want I can learn many things from 5-year-old baby means, is it possible for 5 year baby to be mature? I asked this puzzle to so many people to solve; one of them told me maturity is a behavior state in which you reacts correctly at correct place and time. Now again new question arises who will decide about this!!  A person who is declared immature, definitely not, then person with whom he behaved!!  in his view, he can never tagged him mature, as his views perception is different from that immature person, or people standing outside of that matter and giving valuable expert comments or we can say judging both of them. If it happens then some of them having same thoughts same reactions go with tagged immature person and judge him and his behavior correct and some will go with other party. So again confusion remains same between mature and immature personality.

Actually nobody is wrong in their judgment perception given is based on upbringing, surrounding with whom company person is spending his time, everyone has different principles, morals to lead their life, some give importance to voice of  their soul and some outer pomp and show, so their views and reaction on same subject will definitely be different and conflict arises. Some cannot compromises with the principals they are living, for them self-respect is their life, when issue arises they become violent  and for  others that is not a big issue they want to show themselves innocent in their surrounding and for that they can compromise at every issue, their  reaction index will surely be low .

 Nobody can challenge others maturity it all depends on how that matter is related to their life how it make difference to their life and how it will affect their personality.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

Inspiration Of Nature

‘Nature is art created by God’.

When I look at these pictures, I said wow! What a natural beauty!! , nature and human both are distinct features created by god. Nature set an example of an inspiration and mentor. In morning when sun rises in sky with golden bright rays to give me wake up call, I also welcome that with open arms, sun is source of energy it gives me strength to work for whole day with joy and happiness.

 Every day comes with its own color sometimes bright sometimes blue we must enjoy bright phases too, gather positive approach, although difficult but must fight with blues from inner strength, just like day and night follow each other, good & bad follows. In evening sometimes when I feel low I use to sit near window with cup of tea and look at surroundings which inspires me a lot, like trees and birds chirping around them, how tree stands on it roots even when strong wind shatter its branches, with a great learning to stand on our morals and principles even at the time we feel ourselves shattered or broken heart, and those birds sitting on branch of a tree inspires me to fly without stress in the sky to reach at destination, new heights which I explore myself. When cool breeze touches my face it gives me a fresh and gentle feeling, Blossoms send me message of pleasure. Orange sunset announces the coming night, Night comes with calm beauty,  it tells me to spend some time with my Family , relax and have sound sleep which I desire for peace of mind and body.

 ‘ Every season has its own beauty’

 As days passed away new climate welcome me to enjoy its beauty, to experience, changes are necessary in life to enjoy life’s twist and turns, nothing remain same.  Nature is such a great mentor but unfortunately we are taking it for granted , nature is  like our mother  who gives shelter , food , cloths even air we breathe everything to survive . We can experience its depth and magic with silence to satisfy urge of soul so that we can live in great harmony with it.

       

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