Destruction when this word clicks, what is our reaction? Generally people declared destruction as bad, worst or disaster but is it fair to think like this? When it comes to human being a person who rebels or opposes the rules of society he is living in, people tagged him as a destructive mind but do we ever think without destruction, what is the importance of construction? It is our human nature we always like positive, good but we forget good is good just because of bad, if we will not face rough phases in life we can never understand how good is meaningful to us, to our life.
My father generally says me ‘analyze destruction’, you will find, seeds of construction lies in the root of destruction, I asked him how? today I came to know what he wants to say, when my daughter was breaking her toys and my hubby said ‘she is destructive’, once I was disappointed but when I look at her she was staring each and every part of toy by touching that, it seems that she is trying to explore something new for her, instead of getting angry I become happy and start helping her by telling her about different parts. It is just like potter who dig the sand patted it to make it soft and then mould in desired shape, digging and petting is like destruction but end result which came to us is constructive.
Actually destruction is nothing, it is only our attitude, how we look at a situation, how we think, the things which are destructive to us may be constructive for others. once someone tagged me as current wire, I was shocked and feel shattered but suddenly a new thought came in my mind, if I am current wire, then we can use current in different ways in our life, to make life better and in present scenario can we expect our life without current? Certainly not and at other hand it is destructive only when we touch openly or use it carelessly. This is our fault isn’t it?
Anyone would tell me why we adopt new things and discard old ones in our life? Correct as we want everything latest, want to make our life easy and comfortable by using them, in the same way if we change old thoughts according to generation, if we like to change old rituals in new way where we can enjoy them accept and follow them with open heart, it doesn’t mean we are having destructive thoughts it means we are reconstructing ourselves according the desire of new age.
So from next time if someone calls you rebellion then take it as compliment think why he is criticizing you, your views? Yes at some level your thinking is affecting his views his mental state, that’s why he is opposing you and hesitating to accept your opinion. If end result is fruitful then one day he will understand your way of thinking and accept that also don’t disappoint yourself.
Actually while judging about destructive and constructive only our own perception works, it is like a glass which is filled half by water how we assess that half empty or half full. Destruction and Construction are like two sides of single coin, if we look at sunny side then by our intelligence, our wisdom we can convert destruction into construction, as, ‘the voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes’ isn’t ?